Dec 19 2014

Do you suffer with Trauma Transference Syndrome

Meet Mal Weeraratne who first recognised Trauma Transference Syndrome, Mal Weeraratne has treated thousands of clients and has spent several decades learning and researching the effects that trauma takes on the body, the results of his findings culminated in his founding of Trauma Transference Syndrome.

A traumatic experience impacts on an entire person. The way we think, the way we learn, the way we remember things, the way we feel about ourselves, the way we feel about other people, and the way we make sense of the world are all profoundly altered by traumatic experiences, which is why it is so important that trauma and the resulting emotions are dealt with and that a victim of trauma is helped to process the experience. If trauma is not process the powerful images, feelings, and sensations do not just ‘go away’ instead they are deeply imprinted and are stored in the body’s cellular memory.

The following illustration is a map how emotions are stored in the body. (Bodily maps of emotions by Lauri Nummenmaa, Enrico Glerean, Riitta Hari, and Jari K. Hietanen)

The active memories of the trauma remains ‘locked’ in the system causing blockages until a ‘trigger’ occurs. When a trigger that allows the victim to access the trauma presents itself, in suffers of Trauma Transference Syndrome the real cause of the original trauma is not recognised and is instead transferred to the new stimuli or trigger, for example if a therapist treats a client who is storing trauma in his/her body and acts as the trigger for releasing this trauma the client will assign the blame for the trauma to the therapist who has helped them access the trauma.

In order to understand Trauma Transference Syndrome it is necessary to understand how trauma enters the body during a traumatic event and how it is stored within the body as well as the effects that this stored trauma has on the victim.  Also how the trauma can be accessed and transferred if not treated.

Why does Trauma Transference Syndrome Occur?

Trauma Transference Syndrome occurs when a past trauma such as sexual abuse has been engraved into the cellular memory and has not been dealt with. It is now recognised that victims of abuse such as rape and sexual abuse suffer from a form of post-traumatic stress. The signs of this trauma scarring are not generally outwardly visible, the memory has been supressed in the mind, but the powerful images, feelings, and sensations do not just “go away” once the danger of attack has passed. These memories are deeply imprinted, more strongly than normal everyday memories and often shards of the trauma occur from time to time manifesting in feelings of anger, rage, sadness, mistrust, fear, shame, loneliness, abandonment.

Mal Weeraratne will help you with whatever trauma you have faced especially if you suffer Trauma Transference Syndrome.


Dec 18 2014

RUMM are always ahead of energy saving solutions

RUMM Shortlisted in Caerphilly Business Awards 2014

RUMM Energy Management Services are delighted to have been shortlisted for the category of “Business of the year with 25 or more employees” in this year’s Caerphilly Business Awards. We are very happy to be in the final mix with 2 other companies. It is recognition of how we have developed as a business – a few years ago we won the category with less than 25 employees. The criteria that the award is judged against is “the business that has demonstrated outstanding and consistent achievement, particularly over the last twelve months, or that shows the greatest promise for the future”.

The finals will take place on Friday 21st November at Bryn Meadows Golf & Spa Hotel with host BBC Wales presenter Jamie Owen. Reduce Business Energy Consumption today by speaking to RUMM and finding out how they can assist your company.


Dec 17 2014

What is a sacred spot massage?

Tantric Journey Deep Body Work for emotional release for Emotional Detox on Cellular Memory

Using my Tantric massage techniques for the Sacred Spot massage or G Spot massage, I have been able to witness women cure themselves of the most traumatic seated feelings that taunt them regardless of the time of occurrence of these emotions. Some have been able to shed layer by layer through emotional release as the Sacred Spot massage or G Spot massage removes negative emotions on the basis of cellular memory for emotional detox. These deeply seated emotions lurk in the body making one repeat negative lifestyle patterns even though one mentally claims that the ‘baggage’ has been filed to the mental ‘recycle bin’.

On Approaching A Theory of Emotion: An Interview With Candace Pert, Ph.D By Lynn Grodzki, Fellow, ’For the past twenty years, Pert has been studying the movement of amino acid chains in the human body. In the process, she is unraveling the mystery of mind-body communication and changing forever the way we understand emotion’.

My Scared Spot massage or G Spot massage for emotional release and emotional detox reprograms the negative state of the body cells to a positive state. And my work can be supported by Candace Pert’s research and study.

When Grodzki asked Pert,’ So we are programmed to be able to repeat emotional experience and we can access it through the body in many ways. What happens to emotions that are not able to be fully expressed?’.

Pert replied,’ I have a whole theory about this. I believe that emotion is not fully expressed until it reaches consciousness. When I speak of consciousness, I include the entire body. I believe that unexpressed emotion is in process of traveling up the neural access. By traveling, I mean coming from the periphery, up the spinal cord, up into the brain. When emotion moves up, it can be expressed. It takes a certain amount of energy from our bodies to keep the emotion unexpressed. There are inhibitory chemicals and impulses that function to keep the emotion and information down. I think unexpressed emotions are literally lodged lower in the body’.

My Sacred Spot massage or G Spot massage for ‘emotional release ‘as I call it for emotional detox works around the seven Chakra frame. And second lowest Chakra is the Lower Abdomen Chakra that is the center for sexual energy, creativity and pure emotions.  And the first lower Chakra is the Root Chakra that links the individual with the physical world giving a sense of safety and belonging. An imbalance in both can have life deteriorating patterns.


Dec 14 2014

Dedicated and professional Knowall IT support team

Are you looking to reduce costs in your business and not sure where to start? Do you want to increase productivity in your organisation?

Knowall IT will assist your company to convert to Cloud Computing London effortlessly so you will never look back. They offer leading London Cloud Solutions which is affordable, scalable with built in redundancy; and are here to support your journey to the cloud.

What is Cloud Computing?  The Knowall Cloud Computing is a solution that delivers email and data directly to your PC desktop or web browser while still using local applications. As leading London Cloud Providers Knowall IT have the latest innovative technology.

How is this possible? Knowall IT has their own server which houses clients email, data and applications on their high availability cloud platform. This server is co-located in a 3 tier data centre outside of London.

Benefits of Cloud Computing?

There are many benefits to your organisation or company by converting to Cloud Computing. It is an affordable solution reducing costs in your organisation and delivers better customer service. Your business will run more efficiently concentrating on the core business functions.

With Platform as a Service, Software as a Service, Infrastructure as a Service Knowall IT has solutions for everyone.

The options might seem over whelming, don’t feel you are alone. Speak to Knowall IT the experts in Cloud Solutions assisting many clients. They use innovative technology thus making your life simple and your company to run more efficiently.


Dec 12 2014

The travelling Souk have unique hand crafted gifts

Christmas is a time for giving without having to spend a fortune on gifts leaving you short of money for the New Year. Get back to basics and find those special  unique Christmas giftsThe Travelling Souk have a stunning range of Christmas Gifts from any price range. These gifts you will not often find on the High Street which make them even more unusual Christmas gifts to receive. These gifts have been made with love, care and excellent quality. We have chosen a few ideas however The Travelling Souk have so many more… have a look at the large selection available.

Why not give Teachers, friends and family a gift from the heart this Christmas? Something meaningful and useful, find out what the person likes, perhaps their hobbies and find a suitable gift to give them.

The Travelling Souk one of the UK largest Christmas gift websites have a delightful range of handmade Christmas Decorations to adorn your home with beautifully this season.

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Dec 11 2014

dblo Associates believe in adding value to your organisation through design

dblo architects Kensington are a group of highly experienced and creative individuals who are passionate about creating and enhancing value in the organisation and working environment through design. They firmly believe in creating a design so beautiful that employees will be excited about their working environment and therefore add value to the organisation.

dblo architects London Bridge are innovative and simply brilliant at their job. So if you are wanting to build a new home or office ask the design experts for their advice and assistance speak to the professionals with years of experience, talented team of individuals. dblo associates make a huge impact in the architecture, interior design and development arena in London. This team of individuals each bring creativity ideas, talents and experience to the projects they are entrusted with.

If value through design is what your company requires, get in touch with dblo associates.


Dec 10 2014

IBS supply Blowers, Industrial Vacuums, Vacuum Pumps and much more…

Blowers  Vacuum Pumps  Repair, Servicing and Reconditioning  Hire Equipment

IBS are market leaders in innovative Industrial Services equipment and solutions. They have a reputation as leaders in cutting edge technology for Industrial Blower Equipment such as Industrial Vacuum Pumps and Industrial Vacuum Services which are known for their high performance, robust equipment, cost effective and versatility. So versatile they vacuum wet and dry spillage and dust right through.

Hiring equipment from IBS is simple and affordable, they have liquid ring, rotary vane, side channel, claw and roots  Vacuum Booster pumps available to minimise our customers down time in the event of:

  • Emergency breakdown
  • Planned repair/maintenance
  • Short-term demand
  • Testing of new systems
  • Accidental damage

Dec 8 2014

Read some excellent advice from DIY Marquees

DIY Marquees for sale give fantastic advice to ensure their customers’ requirements are taken into consideration and often on a tight budget. They will give the best possible advice ensuring your party or function is a complete success. Whether you would like a garden party, wedding, Christmas party you will be sure to get the help you require. DIY Marquees have some affordable pop up marquees for sale.

Case study: Mr Jones wants to cover as much of his garden with marquees as possible

We recently had a visit by a Mr Jones, he was planning a party and wanted to extend his house in to the garden using marquees. This is a pretty common scenario for marquee hire companies especially during the winter months.

Mr Jones came in with a diagram of his garden with the marquees he thought he need, two 4x6m marquees, one 3.6×3.6m pagoda and one walkway:

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The garden is not easy as it’s a very funny shape and on the surface this looks to do the job. My concerns were:

  • Weathering to the house would be difficult. The 4x6m marquee against the house should at least be a 6x4m one for ease of weathering. A pagoda is sloped on all 4 sides and so difficult to weather against a house.
  • There would be many joins. This is not a problem regarding weatherproofing with our guttering kits but it can be a hindrance to party atmosphere and circulation. The risk is the end 4x6m marquee would feel cut-off and under-used (note if this layout went ahead a good suggestion would be to put the food and/or drink in this 4x6m to ensure it is used).
  • Walkways are ideal for connecting marquees together but in this scenario you aren’t really gaining any useable space by having the walkway in the middle there. It’s a bit like a sideways corridor.

So having explained all of this I suggested an alternative approach, a 4x12m marquee and a 4x4m marquee on the side:

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  • This is much easier to weather against the house (both marquees would have their flat gables towards the house)
  • There is only one join and it is much easier to weather the two marquees side by side
  • You have a larger main area for the guests to circulate.

Note that in this example Mr Jones is actually ending up with slightly less of his garden covered and my alternative option is cheaper than his original suggestion. I can however guarantee that this second idea will be an improvement on the atmosphere and circulation of the party.

As mentioned in other articles I would still recommend having the food and drink out in the marquee (maybe at the far end). People (especially blokes) linger by the bar, having the food and drink outside guarantees the marquees are used fully and everyone doesn’t end up in the kitchen.


Dec 7 2014

Safe and affordable solution to dating

Are you tired of going to the movies alone or daunted by the thought of going out on a date on your own when others have partners. Do you long for company on a weekend getaway or have a Christmas party to attend and don’t have a partner?

Dukes of Daisy have the perfect professional service to meet these needs, they are a reliable and safe rent a friend agency. They offer a reliable, affordable and friendly companion service. You can rent a friend easy as a few clicks of a button. They have a large selection of rent a friend to choose from be in a sporty, serious, fun loving or active person there is someone for everyone.

Browse Dukes of Daisy site and select the person you would like to be your companion, book the date and time and the person will then be yours for the occasion. No strings attached just a good fun companion is sometimes all one needs to make us feel more confident and less lonely.


Dec 4 2014

Lodge Brothers the family you can turn to in time of need

Christmas Carol Service of Remembrance

This year were are holding a Christmas Carol Service of Remembrance on Sunday 14th December 2014 at 3.00pm at St Andrew’s Parish Church, Biggleswade.  The congregation will be invited to light floating candles during the service to remember people they have lost. Tags of Remembrance will also be placed on the Christmas Tree during the service, after the service the tags will be transferred to the Tree of Remembrance at Woodman and Son. After the service all are warmly invited to stay for light refreshments and a chance to share memories. We hope this service will bring comfort to everyone who attends. This invite extends to all in the community.

Lodge Brothers funeral directors Ashford and Funeral directors Woking and many other Lodge Brothers branches get behind several important campaigns where lives are changed or saved such as the Road Safety Week is the UK’s biggest road safety event, involving thousands of schools, organisations and community groups every year. Set up in 1997, the event is coordinated annually by Brake each November, and aims to encourage grassroots action on road safety and raise awareness about the part we can all play in preventing tragedies and making roads safer. Road Safety Week is taking place 17-23 November 2014, it is asking everyone to ‘look out for each other’ on roads, because being selfish can easily lead to tragedy.

Particularly calling on drivers to protect people on foot and bike by slowing down to 20 in communities, looking twice and taking it slow at junctions and bends, and giving people plenty of room. Specsavers in St Neots are holding a raffle to raise funds for this excellent charity. T L Cobbold are very proud to be support such an important project.

Lodge Brothers are passionate about making people aware in order to save lives.

Lodge Brothers all around the UK Funeral Directors Chertsey and Funeral Directors Englefield Green know what a special time it is at Christmas especially if you have lost a loved one, this can be one of the most painful occasions to celebrate without your loved one. They understand the importance of acknowledging that special person and have many different ways of including you to be able to celebrate their life.

Tree of remembrance

From the 1st December our annual tree of remembrance will be in our reception area.  If we have cared for you in the last 4 years you will have been sent some tags. Perhaps your bereavement was more than 4 years ago, it may even be that we ddidn’tlook after the funeral arrangements for you at your time of loss, regardless, you are very welcome to call in or ring us and we will happily supply you with a tag so that you too can write your own message to someone you have lost and remember at this time of year.